Question
I would like to know please some segulot to get pregnant and have children?
Response
Firstly, it is important to “relax”, often the anxiety of having children is what hinders getting pregnant. Of course, it’s great to pray and also do the segulot, but feel calm that when the right time comes Hashem will send it. Beezrat Hashem.
- Apart from praying for oneself (which is logically the most important), praying also for others who do not have children (Treaty of Babá Kamá 92 a);
- Eating small fish such as sardines, etc (Treaty of Berachot 40 A);
- Haschnassat Orchim – welcoming guests (midrash Tanchuma, ki tetse 2);
- Kibud Av Vaem – respecting your parents (midrash Yalkut Shimoni 927). The wise “Chafets Chaim” adds that this merit has a lot of influence to have children, but for this it needs to be done with special dedication!
- Honor one’s wife (massechet Derech Erets Zutah ch. 9);
- Humility (midrash Bereshit Rabbah 37, 1);
- Wife’s Tseniut (modesty – dressed properly, with arms and legs covered) (midrash Bamidbar Raba 8 10);
- After the woman lights the Shabbat candles, read the book of Shemuel from beginning to passuk “Veayarem Keren Meshicho” (Shlah Hakadosh).
- That the man and the woman carry (in their pockets or as a necklace, etc.) a piece of silver with the letter Hê, especially if it does not have the letter He in the woman’s name (Maran Hachidá);
- Cheer up a chatan at the wedding (Matê Moshê book);
- Donate a printed book (Lev Shomea na hakadmá);
- Study about the Korbanot (Matsav Haiashar book);
- 1Not raising animals at home, so as not to end up having problems with Tsaar Baale Chaim, which is one of the sins that causes Chas Veshalom (Heaven Forbid) not to have children (Kav Hayashar ch. 7);
- If you haven’t paid the Shadchan (the person who came up with the idea for the shiduch), pay him (book Peniene Rabenu Hakehilot Yaakov in the name of Chazon Yish);
- Receiving the shabat a little ahead of time (Segulot Israel book);
- Revealing Torah Chidushim (Erke Hakinuiim book);
- On the night of tevilá eat garlic, and have the intention that Shum (garlic) has the numerical value of “Ratson”, and “Notser” (Chessed) which is the eighth mazal, and “Mekor”. And then say the passuk: “Ki Imecha Mekor Chaim Beorecha Nir’e Or”. (The “Ben Yish Chai” in his book Keter Malchut 160);
- Before being with the wife, say the letters of the Hebrew alphabet with purity 22 times (Alef Bet Guimal Dalet etc). And then say Asse Imi Ot Letová. (The “Ben Yish Chai” in the book quoted above);
- The woman should eat flax grains with honey every day for 40 days (Manuscript of Rav Kaduri ZTL);
- The woman takes a piece of paper and dips it in her menstruation blood, and then takes the paper and goes to a tree that bears fruit, and says (as if saying to the tree, but not intending to “ask” to the tree so as not to be Avodá Zará): “I give you my illness, and you give me your strength to bear fruit”. (Manuscript by Rav Kaduri ZTL);
- Sustain Talmide Chachamim (midrash Bamidbar Rabbah 14, 6). This can be done in the best possible way, if you like, through Birkat Avraham;
- Read every day mizmor (chapter) 102 and 103 of tehillim (book Shimush Tehillim Cohen);
- Read the passuk from time to time: וַיֶּעְתַּ֨ר יִצְחָ֤ק לַֽיהֹוָה֙ לְנֹ֣כַח אִשְׁתּ֔וֹ כִּ֥י עֲקָרָ֖ה הִ֑וא וַיֵּעָ֤תֶר לוֹ֙ יְהֹוָ֔ה וַתַּ֖הַר רִבְקָ֥ה אִשְׁ תּֽוֹ And to have the intention that in the word there is a kadosh name that helps to have children.
- The segula of Ruby Stone.
Much success!!!
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