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Question

How long before the wedding does one need to stop being in contact As in if wedding is at 4.15 on Monday when does one need to stop speaking?

Answer

Hello and regards,

It is right to stop meeting with the bride since she starts her purity and begins to appoint the 7 clean days. And usually it takes place about a week and a half or two weeks before the wedding.

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מעיקר הדין אין חובה להימנע מן הפגישות שכן מבואר בשו”ע (יו”ד סי’ קצב) שרק בשעת תביעה להינשא יש חשש חימוד, אבל בנד”ד שכבר עבר זמן תביעה, אין חשש. מ”מ חוששים לדעת הרא”ש (נדה סו) שכתב, דחוששים בכל יום שמא תראה שיותר שהיא קרובה לזמן החופה ליבה הומה ומשתאה תדיר וחוששים לדם חימוד, וכנז’ בב”י. ואע”ג שלא מצינו ברא”ש שמטעם זה אין לחתן לראות את הכלה, אלא שזהו חימוד טבעי וע”כ כתב דיש לה לבדוק בכל יום.

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