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Question

Is it permitted to send a message to a mourner that begins with the word “Shalom”?

Or, just as one does not say “Shalom” to a mourner in person, should one likewise not send him this word in a message?

 

 

Answer

An excellent question!

It appears that, strictly speaking, there is no distinction between speaking and writing, since the mourner is not in a state of peace, and it is therefore inappropriate to greet him with the Name to whom peace belongs. Nevertheless, one who is lenient in this matter has grounds to rely upon, since nowadays people do not intend the actual meaning of the word, but rather use it as a polite expression and an opening to conversation, as explained in the sources.

 

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